"Hello, Earth. How can we justify sadness when awakening to such sights?"
The power of the female and male working in unison. The rugged masculine mountains softened and beautified by the life-giving gentle, female clouds, while a neutral sun puts it all on display with its own slant. Perhaps in the foreground, "The Tree of Life."
A view, inter alia, of Begnas Lake. The four essential elements on display-earth (soil), air, fire (sun), and water-combine to unify as life (and beauty).
Let's get out and lose ourselves in that mix.
There's always going to be the 'macho' type.
Early morning at Begnas Lake.
Take the gap...grab the reward.
Perhaps if you listen carefully, you may hear the music "When the Saints come Marching in".
The feminine scene of softness and beauty referenced earlier.
Back to reality...the challenges that provide the other aspect of joy. Of roads, steps, paths, trails, jungle and climbs. (Rupa Lake below).
Bold and glorious.
Organized, logical, stylish, natural and yet appears chaotic. Then again, this is Nepal.
An aspect of being in Nepal, we'd prefer to think of it as living in the country, is discovering the attitude of the people. To preface the comment of the people, we know only too well that most of us are flawed, if not all. Having qualified it, at least a little, we do find the locals to be warm and hospitable. Expressed differently, we've never come across societies that will open their homes to strangers as do the Nepalese. We do recall that from South Africa, but in our formative years, a much warmer attitude when friends could and usually did arrive for a visit unannounced.
We have been treated in many instances with this warmth where we are invited into strangers' home for a beverage and chat. On another level, we find ourselves on a hike when we'll stop at a home/teahouse and end up spending time with the family, usually a couple with young children. The issue becomes that each time we pass the home, it requires us to make a stop and resume the social interaction. It's wonderful but on another level, it does create a certain discomfort. Sometimes we've sneaked past a home in order to avoid interrupting our activities. We feel poorly doing this but as much as we enjoy the conversation and exchange of ideas, we have things to do; chit-chat is limiting.
The other day we were heading up toward Methlang, which follows a route through partial jungle after which we arrived at the outskirts of the village. I asked Jen that we should try to eat brunch on the outskirts, skip buying beverages as I did not feel like engaging further with anyone. That day, we had already met an 'old' friend plus two fellows on different occasions who offered us accommodation at their residences (professional basis).
Perhaps an enjoyable pastime outside hiking, exploring and a host of other activities, eventually I'll get to it, is shopping. Normally, I dislike the activity but not so over here. Then again, this activity only covers vegetable purchases, drinks, sometimes small supermarket visits, and restaurant take-outs. The latter we rely upon seldom in most countries but change our modus operandi over here. Firstly, it's most satisfying supporting neighborly shops and those with which one forms a rapport. No. We are not some charity, or good people. However, it's very special to feel that one is helping or contributing even if only in a small way. We are talking about a struggling but proud society. It does tend to make one over-buy but then the joy one derives is almost selfish. In addition, there are those with whom one seems to form a special bond. The vegetable lady with her newborn child is one of my big weaknesses (I believe a strength (bias))—she can sell me anything although she never takes advantage. I suppose when I came home with a month's supply of cabbages, I might have miscalculated, judging by Jenni's reaction. Then again, one never knows when cabbages might strike, does one?
We shop mostly upon returning from a hike as everything is 'on the way'. Since the birth of her daughter, Madge is often in a room behind the store. Therefore, we will begin filling small bags with the items we require before she arrives. A neighbor invariably shouts out which will result in Madge arriving with a smile, sometimes with baby in arms. The latter gives us a wonderful few minutes to 'coo' and derive the joy one expects interacting with a baby who is now able to smile.
"Dumb Westerners are here again; better get out front and keep an eye on them," might well be the comment from the neighbor.
Yesterday, the routine was slightly different. We stopped for eggs and bananas only as the boss mentioned that one of us required a lot more protein. Apparently, I wasn't getting sufficient nutrients from bread, according to my medical advisor. I had begun loading up with eggs, filling the bag while checking the shells were firm and intact when Madge entered with child on chest being fed. This presented a little problem as we did not wish to disturb the process. When it came to settling, it meant we needed change. The other functions we could perform ourselves easily. By the way, there are no cash registers used in the smaller businesses—scale, calculator and cash-drawer. Solution to avoid interrupting the baby's routine: Simple. Keep buying until no change or little was required. Also, a great way to acquire sodas and other junk food, for protein source only, of course.
You know what the end result is? It gives us much joy, keeps us eating healthily should you ignore the Coke-zeros, and of course Jen won't admit it, maintains a high standard of culinary talent through constant practice. In addition, one meets the children and that creates other forms of fun as well as conspiracies. It's fascinating and truly wonderful relating to the kids; each one is unique; each has a spirit that at times can be entertaining, even educational and a bit 'cheeky'.
A negative to the camaraderie if there is, is it becomes difficult to choose where to shop. One feels that one is letting down someone by shopping at another favored local 'friend'. It may sound somewhat strange, but it becomes a dilemma except when we need vegetables. There're no doubts or indecision with regard to Mama-vegetables. And by the way, should we need a pre-arranged taxi, we call upon her husband.
We met a fellow, 'Hom', (pronounced home)...continues later...
A peek and peak through the 'looking glass'.
Leave it to Machapuchare to bid us farewell. It will always be there, will we?
Cheers,
Jenni and Jeffrey