in the essay that follows at the end, we were not intending to hike on this visit. Hence, we did not bring our regular cameras and other items. Scenes are different from other parts of the world but the cameras did not appreciate them as much as we.
Our lifestyle has undergone, we might say, a complete overhaul and from our perspective has resulted in much change in many facets of our lives. We probably would not recognize ourselves should we take a step back and view our progression forward from say twenty years ago. One proviso: We make no claim that we are better or worse for it although we hope we have retained our core value beliefs. For the rest, not only would we like to to believe we have embraced change but that we feel it has altered the path of our lives in ways never envisaged.
Having returned to the country of birth, solely to visit Mom, not to hike or explore this time, we find another form of change cast upon us. While we had every reason to feel unfortunate, and for a brief period did, we decided to apply a different mindset. It's still early days and realize circumstances may vary again and quickly, causing us to eat 'humble pie', but that's life. One has to adapt to changing circumstances even though one may dislike the new situation. It’s much more comfortable and therefore tolerable knowing the likely future, akin to jumping on the treadmill.
We awoke at the Sonesta Suites on the Monday of our departure to find my negative covid test awaiting me on my computer. Great. However, Jenni's had not been delivered. Stress, part 1. Not so great. Some hours later, after many calls, an email arrived with good news. Interestingly, we took the tests simultaneously on Sunday at 7:45. Jenni’s record showed her test was taken before 7:30am.
A cowboy drove us in his Lyft that evening as if we needed a joyride before a more than thirty-hour flight. This is happening more often which is a concern. Formal cab drivers are more cautious. Just an observation.
Our flight to New York was okay except for poor cabin service. Maybe, it's the issue of keeping the air circulating but the temperature was set for the Sahara Desert in mid-summer. I knew I would get sick and we both did. Generally, my health has been superb but I suspected under these circumstances, I was a loser.
In South Africa, we were pretty ill for a number of days—nothing pretty about that. Jenni played the role of full-time nurse to Mom admirably and under her circumstances, doubly admirable. We felt so bad at one stage that Jenni insisted we undertake another covid test. Negative. I’ve always wondered why doctors are pleased when results are negative but the rest of us are happy when positive things occur.
Two days after our arrival, I was chatting with Maude and Theo Alge on the 'phone. Maude mentioned her son had just returned on the last flight to land in the country because his airline had ceased operations in South Africa. Wow, I thought. When we ended the call, Jen called me aside and announced we were officially stuck in the country. Qatar Airlines was no longer flying from South Africa. To this day, we have yet to receive an email or any form of communication from the airline. Anyone remember what customer service is (was)?
Hmm! So we had a flight out on December 8th, a booking of a suite in San Diego, our car parked at that location pending our return and a host of other of life's formalities with which to deal. The car was (is) a serious issue. What could we do? Difficult to manage life from afar although we have adjusted to it over the years. Truth be told, we have enormous experience when it comes to 'living on the road'.
What's the downside of living like 'vagabonds', Jenni’s sometimes term? That one day we may be too old to survive this way. We did write a book a while ago about Hike-about but it's so out-of-date that it's missed half the fun and adventure. It reminded me of a comment (criticism—we get a fair number of those) from an intelligent fellow who questioned us. He said that it's part of the human DNA to live in a house. Basically, what's wrong with you? Let me get back to you, I think we answered.
Back to some of the issues. In our opinion, one reason that humanity survives is because of the kindness of strangers. I firmly believe, whatever one's view on a God or even religion, the world endures because good deeds make it a worthwhile endeavor notwithstanding the preponderance of evil, violence and hatred. This leads us to mention one such human.
When
Donald Osborne, the executive-manager of the Sonesta Suites Hotel in Sorrento Mesa, San Diego, heard of our dilemma, he immediately reacted. He assured us our vehicle would be welcome to remain on their premises until our eventual return. It was an enormous burden lifted. The kindness of a stranger, although we are no longer strangers, reaches deep into the soul. It's moving, most humbling and we believe such deed certainly is a great help to the recipient but more importantly, makes the whole world that much improved. Thank you kindly, Donald.
As an aside, we don't advertise on our blog. However, should you visit San Diego or even live there and wish for a short holiday treat, book a suite at the hotel. Donald runs a first-class operation, more than ably assisted by a top-class staff, in a desirable location. Don't stay there because we consider him to be a very decent and kind person: Rather, visit for the sake of enjoying a great place to live while in the city.
Returning to South Africa: Another reason we are bound to return to San Diego is because of the Lichter wedding, the marriage of Megan, daughter of Robyn and Derek. With no flights, facing an incredibly long hike to North Africa followed by a swim across the Atlantic and a flight across America, we did not believe we had sufficient time. Jen was optimistic but I worried about directions. Also, we probably do not have enough pages in our passports to accommodate the various countries' rubber-stamps.
With so much going on, feeling a little down because of illness, we noticed Mom was walking around with a 3-iron golf club. In the past, she usually carried a wedge. The latter is used for chipping. Basically, when I get on her nerves, she gives me a chip here and there...and I get the message. However, a 3-iron is serious. Jen and I decided with an open-ended schedule, we'd better give her space. We decided to resume hiking, obviously 'reluctantly'. This would give her a break with something to look forward to—our return (nice sentiment).
However, hiking meant we had to buy boots, some clothing, and a host of other items. I did not bring my camera, something that I will miss. At time of writing, we've undertaken three hikes. The second one was PG Wodehouse, obviously educational, figuratively speaking. Some of the details are dealt with in the body of the text above.
Finally, I decided to write this essay because I have a point I wished to make. I suppose if I was gentleman, I would have mentioned this at the beginning. Anyway, if you have not missed a word thus far, my hat off to you. It goes something like this: There is a lot about South Africa that we find disagreeable. Should one focus on the negatives, one could almost think of it as living in the United States. Oops! Low blow. 😏
We believe had the country undertaken to follow the ethic of say Japan or Singapore, for example, it would be an incredible place. It's a wild statement but it illustrates the point where the rule of law has all but been abandoned, perfected by the leadership.
Nevertheless, South Africa is in my blood. When I add the natural beauty and variation of the wilderness and landscapes, the friendliness and general nature of the people, it makes living here for extended periods, a desirable goal. I will qualify it by stating that residing in the country for us means utilizing our style of living rather than hunkering (bunkering) down in a permanent abode, in a big city. Like many Third-world countries, the inefficiency and corruption is just too much with which to cope. Notwithstanding such criticism, I am strongly influenced by my history in this country.
As Alan Paton wrote, ‘Ah, but your Land is Beautiful'.
PS As wonderful as the physical land is, it’s not better than any other part of the world. Fortunately, we inhabit a beautiful world; and the many, decent South Africans make a difference.
2 comments:
Like all explorers , your perspectives speak to hope and appreciation of the natural environment . If we continue to destroy the latter , we will erode the former . Clive .
Now I wish we were as smart and cogent as you. Succinctly put. Best wishes and thanks, Clive.
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